Author - Sarah G

SPH Webcam Advice: How To Run Small Penis Humiliation Shows

Having spent tons of hours performing for SPH fetish fans, I know all about small penis humiliation and camming. Here in this article below I basically share all that I know about doing these shows and how you can truly profit big time by doing so.

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My Advice For Cashing In On SPH Cams aka Small Penis Humiliation

Small Penis Humiliation, or SPH, is a very common fetish among submissive men. They’ve spent their entire lives knowing that they’re small, and even been humiliated for it in the past. It weighs so much on their minds that it turns into a fetish for them.

When something like this is all-encompassing and part of everything you do, it’s not strange for the person to start needing it in order to achieve erection or orgasm. That’s how a fetish works and using SPH in your shows is a great way to keep your customers coming.

Be Confident In Everything

Men seeking out SPH as a fetish aren’t very likely to want it from just anyone. They want it from a femdom who can take control of them and order them around.

It makes them feel small and that’s really what they’re after. If it’s something that you want to offer then you have to be confident in everything that you do.

No sexually dominant woman in this position is ever going to question herself or her actions. She’s also never going to ask for feedback. Just decide what you want them to do and stick with it.

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Insult Them All The Time

These men who are after humiliation want it to be as verbal as possible. That means that you have to be mean and insult them. Call them worthless every chance you get. Call them pathetic.

Laugh at them and make them feel small and miserable. That’s what they’re after and it’s what they’re paying for.

It’s what you have to give them if you really want to keep them coming back for more. The more you humiliated them, the more they’re going to want it and that’s how it should work out with everyone.

Use Objects In Cam 2 Cam

One of your best tools in SPH is Cam 2 Cam. If your viewer is willing to pay for you to watch them, use it to your advantage. Have them compare their penises to small objects, like tiny batteries or pencils.

Make them hold them next to their penises and tell them how much bigger and more satisfying the tiny object must be.

It also works great if you have the same kind of object with you. You can hold it up to show them just how small it is when you try to use it.

SPH For Big Penises

One thing that you’re likely to come across are men who want to enjoy SPH, even though they have large penises. You can still do some of the same things, but you have to keep the illusion going.

That means that comparing them to small objects is out. If they can clearly see that they’re much bigger than it, they’re not getting what they need. It’s best to find some other way to humiliate them. Insult the shape of the penis and call it disgusting.

If it’s long but thin, focus on the thinness. If it’s thick but short, focus on the length. The main goal is just to find a way to let them know that what they have could never satisfy a goddess like you.

How To Increase Cam Score & Profile Visibility

There are ways to increase or improve your visibility aka reach on cam sites. It has a lot to do with your cam score. In this article, I cover all the things you need to know if you want to improve your reach and overall score as well as visibility. Let this article serve as a baseline for growing your visibility to become a popular cam model.

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Tips For Increasing Your Cam Score

Most camming guides focus on the same few points over and over again. They tell you how to interact with your viewers, how to manage your tips, what to offer on your cam and things like that. Those are all major aspects of your cam sessions that you have to think about, but they’re not the only ones. One of the biggest problems that new cam girls can have is getting their visibility up.

It’s a struggle that you have to deal with from the very first second that you decide to start camming all of the way until you decide that it’s time to hang up your sex toys. Increasing visibility isn’t just about getting people into your room. It’s about being seen on the cam site that you’re using so you have as many potential viewers as you can possibly get.

Any time someone logs into their cam site of choice, they have to find someone who looks interesting enough to spend money on. If they’re like the vast majority of users out there, that means they’re going to be choosing from the first 25 or so cam models that the site decides to show them. The trick of it all is making sure that you’re one of those 25.

Understanding Your Cam Score

All sites use a cam score. They may not call it that, but it always works the same. You get yours attached to you every single time you log into your cam. It will change the entire time you’re online and decide where you show up on the site’s main page.

How it works is pretty convoluted and no one ever really explains how they work it out. Basically, it always depends on the amount of time you’re broadcasting and the amount of tokens or credits you’re taking in. This, in turn, tells the site where to put you in order of your overall score. Let’s say that you’re online for ten minutes.

If you somehow manage to get 1,000 tokens in this time, your score is probably going to be pretty high and you’ll be near the top of the list. If you’re broadcasting for twelve hours and only have three tokens to show for it, you’re going to be very low.

That means that, in order for anyone to find you, they’ll have to scroll through page after page of model to get to you and decide that you’re worth their money. Keep in mind that this is an extreme oversimplification of the way that the cam score works.

No site ever tells you how they’re reaching their own specific numbers. There are still some things you can do to make sure you end up at the top of the list, instead of at the bottom.

Start Out Naked

This is a trick that can’t be overlooked. It’s something that can rocket you right to the top of the cam score listings. The only things that viewers have to go on is your thumbnail when they scroll past you. Seeing a girl who’s already naked, and very obviously so, it going to make them flock to your room.

It’s telling them that you’re already in the middle of some action and they can just slip right into it. They don’t have to wait for your goals to get hit to see what you have underneath your clothes for them. It will help you to get a large group of regulars that are always on the lookout for you.

If you want to save your nudity for later on in your sessions, do it after you get those regulars pouring in.  to start just log on naked and it’s going to drive your traffic.

Offline Content

The one thing you should know above all others is that offline tips count just as much as online tips. They have the power to change your cam score overnight. Just think about it: if you cam for five hours and make a certain amount of tokens, you’re getting one cam score when you log off.

Now consider offline content. These are videos that people have to spend money on to see. If you have a good amount of them, and they’re selling, all of those tokens you’re making will affect your cam score. You’re still recorded as only having been broadcasting for five hours, but now your tokens have exploded without you having to do a single thing.

It’s a surefire way of manipulating the algorithm in your favor and it’s completely allowed. All you need to do is post some videos for people to buy when you’re offline and you’ll be rising through the ranks when you’re sleeping, eating, shopping, or anything else instead of always being actively online and camming for your viewers.

Interactive Sex Toys

Finally, if you want to be anyone in the cam world, you have to use interactive sex toys. These are a must. If you don’t have them, you’re never going to be as popular as the girls that do. You’re also never going to make as much money as they do.

You really need them to be successful in camming, no matter what your niche happens to be. These are toys that your viewers can set off with their tips. You have dozens of them to choose from and they all do something different.

Once you set them up, viewers will be able to pay you to see your reactions to them. There are toys that you insert, toys that go on the outside, even toys that are overdesigned pistons with dildos on the end of them.

Using these it going to drive tips and bring you right to the forefront of the cam score. Get them as early in your camming career as you possibly can and always have them on. It’s what you need to get in front of the eyes that belong to the people who want to give you money and there’s really no way around it. Interactive sex toys are your best friends.


If you do all these things suggested, I promise that you will for sure see a jump in rankings amongst other models. You’ll see a major surge in fans and earnings overall too. Trust me on this, I’ve done this long enough to know what works and what doesn’t.

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Advice For Non-Nude Cam Girls Looking To Profit

There’s one major misconception in the camming world, that’s that all cam girl have to get naked. That’s their job. If you’re on cam then you’re on it to take off your clothes for the people paying to watch you. That’s not necessarily true, though.

The main goal of camming is to create a connection with your viewers. They’re not just there to see naked women because they can be getting that anywhere. They’re there to interact with women and connect with them. That makes it completely possible to be a cam girl that never takes off her clothes. Trust me, I’ve been there and done that. Today I’m sharing what I know about surviving and succeeding in non-nude camming categories.

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Non-Nude Webcam Modeling Tips

Here’s my quick tip article for succeeding as a non-nude cam girl. It’s not easy, but it’s doable and lucrative if you get things really going. This is everything you need to know.

It’s Definitely More Difficult

The thing about it is that it’s definitely going to be more difficult to get started. Most of the people on cam sites still want to see the women they’re talking to get naked. It’s going to be a bigger challenge to establish yourself as a non-nude cam girl, but it’s still possible.

You just have to make sure that you’re all about your own personality. You have to talk to people and engage with them. You have to be completely open about your life. If you’re thinking that you can just sit on a cam with your shirt on and get paid then you’re just wasting your time.

It Should Still Be About Eveningwear / Lingerie

Even if you are still completely clothed for your entire private cam session, you still have to wear something that’s revealing. There’s a balance that you have to strike and it can take some getting used to. Sure, the people watching you may be okay with just talking and getting to know you, but they still need a sexual aspect.

They could just talk to people on the bus if they were just starved for human interaction. Wearing lingerie or tiny shorts and a cut off can make all the difference. Now you’re teasing them with your body and that’s almost as good as getting naked for them.

You just have to make sure that you make it clear that you’re not getting naked. If they go into it expecting to see skin, they’re not going to walk away happy. Write it all over your profile and in your chat box.

Once it’s understood by everyone who visits your room, you’ll find that the complaints and the trolling will ease up. You’ll be able to just do your thing with your clothes on.

Don’t Think You’re Classy

The biggest mistake that any non-nude model can make is convincing herself that she’s classier or better than the girls who get paid to show their vaginas. You’re not. No one is better than anyone else.

You’re still working on the same cam site as they are. You’re still relying on tips from total strangers for money and that’s fine. Having an air of arrogance in your room when you won’t even take out your tits is going to sink you faster than anything on a cam site.

Just understand that you’re exactly the same as the girl who’s puckering her butthole on the cam right next to yours and you’ll be in a much better place. You’re still there to entertain and to interact with people.

That’s the job and being humble about it is what it takes. Always understand that and you’ll be much further along than a lot of the other newcomers on the site. Everyone always wants to see themselves as being different from the other girls on a cam site. They’re not. Everyone is exactly in the same place and it’s much better to work together than it is to work separately.

Being Clothed Won’t Save You

The other, possibly even more, important thing to keep in mind is that keeping your clothes on isn’t going to save you if you get found out by an employer or loved one. If you’re running the risk of losing your job by being on a cam, you won’t be able to make the case that you never get naked in your defense. Being on a cam site is still being on a cam site.

It doesn’t matter what you do or what you refuse to do. It’s all still going to look the same to them. There are plenty of other safety precautions that you can take. Most cam sites let you block out a specific region when you sign up.

That means that if your life and job is in the Pacific Northwest; you can block that entire area from seeing you. It’s the best way to make sure than your employer never comes across you on your cam. It’s how most cam girls go about keeping their camming lives private from the people that they don’t want to know about it. Just wearing a shirt isn’t going to cut it.

Be Open To Transitioning

As you cam more and more often, your comfort levels are going to change. As such, you should always have it in the back of your mind that you may decide to transition into a full blown, nude cam model. The simple fact is that you’re going to make more money by taking off your clothes. That’s just the way that it is.

You should never fully refuse to do it. If you find yourself thinking that it’s more and more okay, just give it a shot. You can always go back to being a non-nude afterward. You might just find that you like it a whole lot more than you thought you would.

Conversely, if you’re a nude model, there’s nothing at all wrong with transitioning into a non-nude. You can still make money and you might already have a base of people who come to spend time with you.

Just let them know that you’re changing things up and the ones who want to stick with you will be able to. No one can ever force you to take off your clothes on a cam site. What you do when you’re broadcasting is always up to you.

Conclusion: Give Non-Nude Camming A Try

If you’re looking to do this, great – you got this! There is without a doubt, money in non-nude cams. Trust me, I know and have successfully done private shows without removing any clothing. But, you must understand it’s much harder than nude shows. Profiting is a bit tougher, but once you get going, the cash flows like fine wine.

Investing 101 For Cam Models (The Basics)

As a cam girl, you need to know a few very important things. One of those things is that managing your money can help you make more of it. Smart investing can change the trajectory of your life – for real! So, please don’t skip this article. I wanted to revisit this to share some updated information with you on investing in general and making your cam earnings last. Please keep reading and ask if you have questions. I’ve covered lots of money related posts here too (both on saving and earning). You’ll find what you need to here.

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Investing Your Webcam Money

I’ll kick things off by sharing the first rule of investing: you’re never too young to invest. Investing can seem awfully intimidating with all that financial jargon but once you break it down it’s pretty simple to understand.

Most cam girls invest to make a little money on the side, or bulk up their savings for retirement, or to beat inflation. Now, I’m not talking about making spur of the moment investments on Robinhood via $GME. I’m talking about smart investing.

If you’re already setting aside money in a savings account you’re ahead of the game, but unfortunately, that money is just sitting there earning less than 1% when it could be making you more money.


The first thing you should look into is investing your retirement savings. This is more than just naming your saving account “retirement funds.”

You need to put your money into a retirement fund like a 401(k) or an IRA. There are three main types of IRAs: Traditional, Roth, and Rollover. Each has its own advantage.

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Traditional IRA

In a traditional IRA you make contributions to your account with money you might be able to deduct on your tax return. Potentially your earnings can grow tax-deferred until you withdraw them for retirement.

A lot of retirees find themselves in a lower tax bracket than they were while they were working so the tax-deferral means your money might be taxed at a lower rate.

Roth IRA

With a Roth IRA you make contributions with money you’ve already paid taxes on. If you meet certain conditions (your bank will be able to go into detail about the conditions you need to meet) you could have tax-free withdrawals in retirement.

Rollover IRA

Finally a Rollover IRA is a Traditional IRA intended for money that has rolled over from a retirement plan. This means you would take money from an employer-sponsored plan such as a 401(k) or a 403(b) and move it into an IRA.

So why would you need an IRA? For starters your savings have the potential to grow or compound faster than they would in a taxable account.

Even if you have a 401(k) from an employer you will still need up to 85% of your pre-retirement income in retirement and that 401(k) may not cut it.

An IRA will help you supplement your current savings, take advantage of tax-deferred or tax-free growth, and help you gain access to a wider range of investment choices.

Do Your Research

If you use your IRA to dabble in investments that are out of the mainstream (meaning you go off the beaten path from the typical offerings of banks and mutual funds) you’re going to want to do some serious research beforehand.

For example, some people buy coins with their IRA. Lots of people buy gold and silver coins because they’ve been measurements of value for thousands of years.

Gold, Silver & Coins

Coins tend to be stable when stock markets crash or inflation soars but that’s not to say the price of gold and silver doesn’t fluctuate, because they do. A lot of mainstream IRA custodians such as banks and mutual funds don’t offer coins as an IRA option.

IRS regulations require storage be overseen by a custodian but custodians don’t have to offer this service. The same holds true for precious metal bullions like gold or silver bars.

IRAs allow for metals such as gold, silver, palladium, and platinum to be purchased with an IRA but many financial advisors say it doesn’t perform over time and probably isn’t worth the hassle of getting it appraised and valued every year.

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Newbie…Please Stick To Funds

If you’re a first time investor your safest bet is to invest in mutual funds. Professional investors collect groups of securities and you can invest in these funds without picking every individual stock or bond yourself. This lets you diversify your portfolio without worrying about which stock to pick.

Many Baskets

Which leads us to the most important rule of investing: diversifying. You never want to put all your eggs in one basket.

That’s the quickest way to lead to financial disaster. Always diversify your investments because you never know what stocks will fall and what stocks will rise.

Avoid “Hot” Stocks

Try not to jump on the stock of the moment, otherwise known as hot stocks. There’s always a stock that’s generating buzz but it’s better to research the company that’s being buzzed about than to jump on the stock of the moment and buy a ton of it.

If you do play the stock game don’t let the morning news dictate whether you should buy or sell. Active investing (buying and selling stocks strategically and frequently) doesn’t work for most people and it’s not always a sound investment.

Check Your Emotions At The Door

Don’t get wrapped up in a stock for sentimental purposes. If a stock performed well in its past performances but the security is falling, you have to be willing to let go.

Securities are only as a good as how they’re currently performing, so be prepared to let go of a stock that may have been good for awhile but has turned bad.

It’s also bad to get caught up in checking the stock ticker all day as markets and stocks go up and down every day. And never invest money you need fast access to. Experts suggest you should never invest money you’ll need within five years because if the market goes down you won’t recoup those costs.

Conclusion: Get Help, But Do Something…

Securities, IRAs, and investing can be overwhelming and risky so it’s always best to consult a professional. There are tons of great resources out there that will help you invest your money wisely.

If you want to learn more about investing contact a financial planner or a wealth adviser or even an automated online investing platform. Feel free to reach out to me for more information if you need to know more. Important Note: I’m happy to share personal experiences, but non of it should be misconstrued as financial advice. 

How To Profit On Instagram Selling Plugs or Products

Can you profit by selling Instagram users things? You better believe it! The most successful cam girls know that in order to make serious money they can’t just rely on camming to support them. The top earners in the cam world spread their talent throughout all kinds of social media platforms increasing their following and their cash flow.

Today I’m going to share some information with you on how to successfully profit on IG by selling. It’s not as difficult as it may sound. In fact, it’s pretty damn easy if you just take action. Here’s what you need to know…

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Earn Big Money Selling On Instagram

Social media sites like Twitter, Snapchat and Instagram are free and easy platforms to increase the amount of eyes on your personal brand (more on that here).

Why does having a social media presence matter?

Think about it from a fan’s point of view. They log on and want to watch your cam show but you’re not there.

If your profile links your fan to your social media network they can look at you, engage with you, and feel like you’re with them even if you’re not live at the moment.

So why would you not want to give them that feeling? Of course, you’d want to do anything to make that happen!

They’ll Skip Other Models and Stick With You

Instead of going to another model’s page they are now engaging with you which gives you a chance to engage back, increasing the likelihood of that fan watching your show and tipping you at a later date because the fan feels like they made a connection. The same logic applies to would-be fans.

They see you interacting with people like them on social media and think they could have a chance to interact with you on a personal basis using social media. Now you’ve got two engaged fans willing to spend money and time on you.

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Big Brands Need You…

Once you reach a solid number of fans on social media, you will also start being approached by brands that will want you to become a brand ambassador.

As a brand ambassador you can either receive free merchandise (such as jewelry, lingerie, or swimwear) and post about the brand to your followers, or you can become an affiliate of the brand and make a commission from each sale.

As an affiliate you’ll receive a special code, place it in your social media bio and each sale will be tracked through that code.

Do Outreach As Well

Once you’ve developed a following of 5,000 fans you can begin to reach out to companies that you want to work with. Don’t be shy about contacting companies that you think are on brand for you and vice versa.

Do you wear a certain brand of lingerie?

If so, post a photo of yourself wearing their brand and tag them in the photo and mention them in the caption.

Any good brand will like the photo or comment, which opens up the door for you to direct message them about working together.

Reach Out Via DM

If that’s not your style then privately email them and ask about their brand ambassador program or find out how you can work with them.

You can work with more than one brand at once so be sure to send out plenty of messages. Making money on social media is all about making connections and developing relationships with other brands.

If you’re wearing a brand’s clothing and they have more than 100k followers and they repost you you’re going to gain a lot of followers, which could turn into fans with tokens.

Instagram isn’t a fast way to make money but if you do it right and build a good reputation the brands will come knocking down your door.

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A lot of cam girls set their Twitter and Snapchat accounts to private and only allow paying customers to access their profiles. It’s a smart move because you can send virtually any kind of adult content on those platforms as long as you’re over 18 years of age.

Instagram doesn’t allow nudity or adult content but you can get away with modeling lingerie or posting suggestive photos. Lots of cam models use Instagram as their main branding platform because it’s 100% visual and easy to use as long as you have a cellphone.

You can post photos, use relevant hash tags, and build an audience very quickly. The key to running a successful Instagram account is to be consistent and engage with your followers whether it’s two followers or 200,000 followers. This article goes into more detail about the do’s and don’ts of Instagram.

Overwhelming, But Don’t Get Overwhelmed

It may seem overwhelming to try to build a strong social media presence but it’s easier than you think. During your show let your fans know you’re now on Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram, etc. and tell them to follow you. You can even offer to follow back the first hundred followers.

Don’t feel bad about promoting your social media accounts on your cam profile because the people in the room are there to see you and are going to be more than happy to watch you on all your social platforms. Making money on social media can be easy and totally enjoyable.

The key is being persistent, engaging with fans, and soon enough you could be one of those Instagram girls making over $100,000 a year in sponsorships and ad placements. Remember, even those girls started with 0 followers.

Conclusion: Take Action, Action Action

Whatever you do, I can confirm with 100% confidence that you will never make any money if you do not take action. Be sure to research what I’ve mentioned above and do something for yourself to really grow your brand! Trust me, you’ll be thanking me for this soon!

Become A Cam Girl By Doing These Things First

After receiving a ton of newbie questions on how to get started, I’ve decided to put a simple list together of what’s needed to kick things off as a cam girl. This will not be a super exhaustive list. It’s the basics to help quickly feed information to girls looking to start camming. I’m also doing this because I am getting so many basic questions from people.

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The Very First Things To Do When Becoming A Cam Girl

Read this list and follow the links referenced. I’ve laid out everything that models need to know if they want to get started. Literally – EVERYTHING. Well, I won’t cover the deep in the trenches stuff today like squirting on cam or crazy stuff like that. But this is the basic cam girl stuff. If you have any questions after reading my other articles, please do continue to reach out.

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Create Your Camgirl Name

This is the first step to success. You need to create your name. Don’t use your real name because that’s going to lead to trouble.

Instead, create a catchy, brandable, easy to remember name. If you’re into a specific niche, then I suggest using something related to that niche. If not, then go broad and brandable, but keep it catchy.

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Setup Social Accounts

Okay, do NOT sleep on this one. Make sure that social media handles are available and secure them as soon as you can.

I’ve heard so many stories of models creating a name and brand, then not being able to secure the social and sure enough, someone launch jacked their brand.

Don’t let this happen or you’ll be sorry. Setup the basics, which are Instagram, Twitter, Facebook etc.

Read The Rules

Sign Up For A Platform & Read The Rules

Get signed up on a camming platform. There are tons of them out there to consider joining. My advice would be to do your research, but if you’re looking to just get started, then join

This is the up and coming platform that everyone is using. It’s pretty much a guarantee that you will make money at Camsoda because it’s so new and popular.

Now, don’t just sign up. Make sure you understand the rules and regulations here. If not, you could lose out on all your earnings.

The adult industry is getting more strict and they need to protect their platform, billing and brand in general. They are not going to sacrifice their entire operations over one model that wants to earn a few extra dollars. So, please know the rules.

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Understand The Tech Requirements

You’re going to need a computer and a webcam at a minimum. Understand the most basic tech requirements as a model. It’s not necessary to spend thousands of dollars to get started.

The startup costs of modeling are low. Just kick things off with the bare minimum, but understand all that’s needed.

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Block Local People

Many girls may choose to skip this but I’ve done this and really suggest you do as well. Blocking local people aka geo blocking your local IP area will prevent people in your hometown from being able to find you.

This is important as you really might not want locals creeping on you. On the other hand, some models (not me) connect intimately with locals and make a ton of money from them. The choice is yours really, but I choose privacy.


Setup Your Profile

Next up, set your profile up with a solid description, bio, physical attributes and more. Leaving a half-ass profile on a cam site or even worse, a blank one, will lead to no money.

Do you want to make money? Great, then put in the basic work of providing consumers information and you’ll succeed.

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Learn How To Start Conversations

You need to know how to start conversations with consumers. Work on ice breakers, convo ideas and things of that nature.

Cover non-political trends, events and holidays happening in society today. Talk about things that you like and even better, things that you love.

Do Your Research

Research Show Ideas

You should do your research. Find out what types of shows other models are doing and think about how you can incorporate the same into your work.

Do your research. I’ve covered a lot of show intel over the years on Please look around for ideas for shows.


Start A Blog – Time Permitted

Last but not least, if you can start a blog, then you should. Consumers love reading posts done by models. They love reading about their days and just life in general.

This helps give them insight into what you’re doing and why and trust me, it typically leads to them buying more private shows. This is the very last thing that you should be doing to kick start things. Do everything else first.

Conclusion: Just Do Them

So, those are the most important things you need to do if you want to start out as a cam girl. Do them in the order that I’v presented and put in the effort up front.

This will help you succeed in the long run and if you cannot do this, then you should rethink becoming a cam model. It’s just scratching the surface, but trust me, the money will flow if you do things right.

Feel free to reach out to me with any other questions or concerns that you might have!

XOXO + High-Five ~ Sarah

Do Sugar Babies Have To Sleep With Sugar Daddies?

This article covers the sugar babies and sugar daddies relationship and whether or not you are doomed if you do not sleep with your “daddy.” Guess what, not all sugar daddies demand sex. You’ll find out why below. Here’s what you need to know if you’re looking to profit from a sweet sugary relationship – WITHOUT the sex.

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Can You Be A Sugar Baby Without Giving Them Sex? YES!

If you’re thinking about entering into a sugar daddy and sugar baby relationship then you probably think that having sex with your daddy is a necessity. That’s the way that most of these relationships work, after all.

An older, well to do man seeks out a much younger and attractive girl and pays her a monthly allowance for her time and plenty of sex. It doesn’t have to be that way, though. Just because it’s the way that most of these relationships work out doesn’t mean that it’s the way that yours has to work.

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Some Daddies Want Something Different

The simple fact of the matter is that there are some sugar daddies out there who want something very different from their sugar babies. Some of these men really just want someone to spend time with them. Others just want an attractive young girl to take out on the town.

Still, others have a fetish that they need to be fulfilled. Sometimes that fetish is as simple as having someone rely on them and ask them for money. Other times, the fetish is financial domination. No matter what the reason for it, there are plenty of sugar daddy relationships out there that don’t require sex.

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Having Sex Is Up To You

Of course, none of this is to say that you should always work to avoid having sex with a sugar daddy. It can be an extremely fulfilling experience for both of you.

After taking so much of a man’s money, it’s only natural to want to thank him with your body. As long as it’s up to you, the sex can be a lot of fun and something that you end up craving and looking forward to. Just be open to anything that comes your way.

It's Just Not Gonna Work

Sometimes It Doesn’t Work

There are going to be some times when the relationship just doesn’t work. There are always going to be men who think that the sugar relationship is all about paying for sex. Then there are girls who feel that they’re entitled to someone else’s money and want to do nothing at all in return for getting it.

Neither of these two things “sugar” relationships. If there’s a daddy who wants you to do things that makes you uncomfortable, all you have to do is walk away. There’s always someone else for you to meet out there. Oh, and trust me, you will run into the average fuck boy from time to time. It’s inevitable, so just roll with the punches.

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Negotiate The Relationship First

The very best thing that you can do for yourself is to simply work out the details of the relationship before it starts, including money. Just lay it all out on the table and let him know what you’re willing to do and what you expect in return.

He’ll likely come back with his own expectations and offers for you. Just find a middle ground and make that the basis of your relationship. You just can’t get any better than knowing what to expect before your relationship ever starts and it will save you from a whole lot of frustration down the line.

Conclusion: Do It and Have Fun With It

No matter what your relationship ends up being, just make sure that you have fun with it. It’s an experience that not everyone gets to have. On top of that, you’re only going to be young for so long.

Once you pass a certain threshold, you’ll have to offer increasingly specialized sexual services after you choose this as your lifestyle, until you’re only good as a granny offering your services to men who are the age that you use to be when you started this whole thing.

7 Most Popular Sex Toys Perfect For Webcam Models

Working as a live cam model means that you always have to find something to make your shows as fun and appealing as possible. You have to keep the people coming in and make sure you’re giving them a real reason to stick around for your shows. The best way for you to do that is to simply make sure you have the fun kinds of sex toys that you can use to give them something that they want to watch. Here are the most popular sex toys for cam models all over the world. I should mention, these are great to use in both premium private shows as well as live free cam shows.

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These Sex Toys Are Just Perfect For Cam Girls

All of these toys are those that I’ve either used or have heard first hand from other models on what they do and how they work. Look, you need sex toys handy if you’re a cam girl and these are the toys you should consider using today.


Lovense Vibrators

The top of any sex toy for cam models list is always going to be taken by Lovense vibrators. These are toys that can be turned on and off by tips or apps.

The viewers get to control the intensity of the vibrations and the models get to enjoy all of the tips that it takes to set them off. They come in all shapes and sizes so you can have a toy for every situation.

There are clitoral vibrators, G-spot vibrators, and even vibrating butt plugs. If you have a need then Lovense can fill it.

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Next up is the We-Vibe. This is also a remote control vibrator, but it won’t work with tips. It’s best used in private shows on Skype. It’s controlled through an app, so you’ll have to give your viewer access to it.

Once they have it, they can control the vibrations and their intensities. The best-selling toy they have to offer is the Chorus.

It’s a U shaped vibrator that’s meant to hook onto the model’s pubic bone to stimulate both her clitoris and G-spot at the same time. If you really want to enjoy your show as much as your viewers then this is the toy you need.

The Cowgirl Toy

The Cowgirl

If you’ve heard of the Sybian then you know exactly what this toy is all about. It’s a saddle that the model can straddle while it vibrates them to an unstoppable orgasm.

What sets this thing apart is that you can control it with an app. That means your viewers will be able to set it off whenever they want and you’ll just be along for the ride.

There’s plenty of add ons for the saddle, including vaginal and anal vibrators to enjoy with it. Trust me, this toy is amazing.



Once again, this is a toy that’s best used in private shows and on Skype. It’s a fully functional fuck machine that won’t break the bank.

It can be controlled by an app that puts total control into the viewer’s hands. It can be set up to 240 strokes per minute and adjusted for anything from 2” to 6” of vaginal penetration.

If you really want to be taken for a bang on your shows then this is the very best way for you to do it. It’s safe and it’s as pleasurable as it can possibly be.

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Liberator Pillows

Moving away from high tech to low tech is the Liberator Pillow. This is a simple thing that can make all the difference in your cam shows.

They’re all designed to get you into the best positions for any kind of cam action. They make it comfortable and they can be outfitted with sex toys.

These pillows will take any sized vibrator or wand so you can ride them without getting yourself into a position that makes it painful or difficult to achieve orgasm. No matter what else you use, make sure you get yourself one of these pillows for your shows.



The Domi is a mini wand that acts as a competitor to the Hitachi magic wand. It’s compact and much more useful than the usual wand. That’s because it’s interactive and can be set off with tips.

You can also use it in your private and Skype shows when you want to give out access to the app. It’s a powerful wand that never lets up and is perfect for full vulva stimulation.

It’s an experience that you just can’t get with any other kind of toy on the market and any model who uses it is going to love it.



Finally, we come to the Womanizer. This is a toy that directly stimulates the clitoris and nothing else. It uses a sucking sensation that most women find irresistible.

It’s not interactive, but people will line up to watch any cam girl use it. The reason for that is that a powerful orgasm is pretty much guaranteed any time that it comes out.

On top of that, it’s the go-to toy for any girl who wants to experience the soaking ecstasy of a squirting orgasm. Being able to do that on cam will keep the viewers coming day after day.

Try Them All

These are the most popular sex toys for cam girls on the market. Try one or try them all. No matter which toys you get, your viewers will love them. These are the top of the line and there’s a very good reason for that. They simply work and they’re fun.

No one can resist them once they come out. You’ll see the difference in the number of people in your room right away and you’ll never want to go back to your old ways of doing shows ever again. Get your collections started today! Lastly, I should mention that many of these can be found on Amazon, so be sure to add them to your wish lists!

MyGirlVids Review: How To Sell Your Adult Content

I’ve both used and reported on plenty of platforms over the years. Today I’m covering a platform called MyGirlVids. If you’re a webcam girl, then you might want to keep reading to learn how you can make some good coin on My Girl Vids.

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My Review Of (Selling Content)

There are a lot of different options for a girl to make some money on the internet with her personality and her body. One of the best ways is with MyGirlVids. This is a site that keeps you safe while you sell your videos to the men and women who love them.

They take digital security very seriously and that just means that you’ll be the only person who can profit off of your work. It’s one of the best ways for you to get your videos on the internet and make sure no one else can steal them.

Digital Fingerprints Make It All Possible

The way it all works is pretty simple. The site encodes each and every one of your videos with a digital fingerprint that can’t be erased. Once you upload it, no one will be able to steal it and place it on their own site.

It makes it very easy to find your videos on any tube site or torrent site on the internet. Once you find them, you can get them pulled down quickly so you don’t lose out on a single cent of your hard-earned money.

It’s Easy To Start

They make it really easy to get started. All you need is to be at least 18 or older. You’ll have to upload a photo ID when you sign up and that’s it. If you make your videos with other people, you’ll also have to upload their IDs.

Once you do that, you’re able to upload as much content as you want and then just sit back and watch it all get sold. You just can’t do much better when you’re trying to sell adult content on the internet and they go out of their way to make it as simple as possible.

Book Live Shows

On top of making it easy to sell your videos, you can also schedule live shows with your customers. It’s very simple to set up your Skype shows to give them private cam sessions that they can keep coming back to.

You can even record those live shows and sell the videos to double your income afterward. If it’s a way to sell videos and shows, then you can do it all right here and you’ll never have to waste any time trying to figure the whole thing out first.


Getting your money is just as simple as everything else on MyGirlVids. They make bi-weekly payments with a minimum of $50. You can choose to get it through FirstChoicePay, a check, or a wire.

It’s totally up to you and you can be sure that the payments will be made. They also handle any chargebacks that might arise. If your customer gets their transaction declined, you still get paid for it and they take care of it all.

All you ever have to focus on is making your videos and selling them. It’s just that simple and works the same for everyone, regardless of how much they make.

Try It Now

You don’t have to wonder what it would be like to make money from your adult content. You can sign up right now and find it all out for yourself.

It doesn’t cost anything to get yourself set up. Simply prove your age and you’re off and running. You’ll never be kicked off for inactivity.

Just post your videos when you’re ready and watch them get sold. It’s a great site that makes it as easy as possible to make money online and you’ll never have to worry about a single thing.

How Cam Girls Quickly Make Thousands Of Dollars On Webcam

If you ever find yourself in a position where you need to make a decent amount of money quickly, you just can’t really go wrong with camming. Yes, there’s nudity and more than a little masturbating in front of total strangers involved, but the simple fact is that you can do it all on your own with just a webcam.

The only thing to keep in mind is that signing up for a cam site is going to take a few days. You’ll have to upload a copy of your photo ID, but that’s it. Once it’s approved, you’re off and running.

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How To Make Fast Money By Camming On The Web

Scared money don’t make no money, so you need to invest a little bit of time and money but you can for sure make quick money camming. Here’s what you need to know in order to make that happen.

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Join Multiple Sites

The best way to get yourself set up is to join two cam sites at first. That way you’ll be able to switch back and forth between them to find the site that works best for you. There’s no sense in joining more than two at a time. Having too many is just going to get very complicated, very quickly.

The best method is to join two sites at the same time. Try them both out, then stick with the one that works better for you. Then you can replace the worse site with a new one to really check them all out.

My Free Cams

My Free Cams is a great site to join at the beginning. It works better with public shows than with private ones. It will get you used to the idea of being naked online and get you ready for your next step.

You’ll also get a badge telling everyone that you’re a new model and that’s going to drive extra traffic to your room. Just be wary of people trying to get you naked for free. Everything you do should cost a tip and they all know that.


After you get your feet wet, you can move onto Chaturbate. This site works in much the same way when it comes to public shows versus private shows. It’s just a whole lot more sexually demanding than the previous site.

You should be prepared to cut out all the stops and just go for it. The more you show and do, the more money you’re going to make. In fact, if you can manage to do two streaming sessions of a few hours each per day, you can expect to make at least $100 a day.

Many Vids

As you grow your fan base, you’re going to start getting asked for personalized videos. That’s where Many Vids is going to come in. This is a place where you can post your videos and your fans can buy them.

It’s simple and easy to use. You’ll get a lot of exposure and you’ll be able to post your live videos after your shows have ended. It’s a great way to expand the lifecycle of your shows and get as much out of them as possible. You’ll be making money on two fronts and that’s never a bad thing at all.

Try Them All Out

If you’re really thinking about using your body and personality to make money, then this is the best way to do it. If you want an alternative to some of the options, then Only Fans is a great one. It’s the new kid on the block and it’s making some girls a whole lot of money.

The worst thing that you can do is just wonder what it would all be like. It’s free to sign up to all of these sites. Just give it a shot and see if it’s for you. That’s much better than just thinking about it.

I recommend checking this section of the site out as well.

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